There is also a chance that you’re lucky and you are currently your nerd’s project. Don’t get too comfortable because he’ll move on, and, when that happens, you’ll be wondering what happened to all the attention. Regarding gender: for this piece, my prototypical nerd is a he as a convenience.There are plenty of she nerds out there for which these observations equally apply. It’s clichéd, but a nerd is defined by his computer, and you need to understand why. A nerd has a mental model of the hardware and the software in his head.Join now and become a member of the #1 Adult Network on the Web: Porn Nerd Network!
First, a majority of the folks on the planet either have no idea how a computer works or they look at it and think “it’s magic.” Nerds know how a computer works. When you ask a nerd, “When I click this, it takes awhile for the thing to show up. While the rest of the world sees magic, your nerd knows how the magic works, he knows the magic is a long series of ones and zeros moving across your screen with impressive speed, and he knows how to make those bits move faster.
The nerd has based his career, maybe his life, on the computer, and as we’ll see, this intimate relationship has altered his view of the world.
You’re going to create a quiet, dark place here he can orient himself and figure out which way the water flushes down the toilet. Carve out three days somewhere quiet at the beginning of the trip. How about letting him chill on the bed for a half-day before you drag him out to see the Golden Gate Bridge? Food is thrown into the irrelevant bucket because it’s getting in the way of the content. Thing is, you want your nerd to eat healthily so that he’s here in another thirty years, so how do you change this behavior? For me, exercise became the project ten years ago after a horrible break-up.
Second, and more importantly, you need to remind him about his insatiable appetite for information. When the project was no longer the Ex, I dove into exercise every single day of the week. Significant nerd behavioral change is only going to happen if your nerd engages in the project heart and soul. My guess is that, collectively, your nerd interacts with ten times more people than you think he does.
If you want to understand your nerd, stare long and hard at his Cave. A correctly designed Cave removes your nerd from the physical world and plants him firmly in a virtual one complete with all the toys he needs. As each part of the project is completed, your nerd receives an adrenaline rush that we’re going to call The High.
Every profession has this — the moment when you’ve moved significantly closer to done.In many jobs, it’s easy to discern when progress is being made: “Look, now we have a door.” But in nerds’ bit-based work, progress is measured mentally and invisibly in code, algorithms, efficiency, and small mental victories that don’t exist in a world of atoms.There are other ways your nerd can create The High, and he does it all the time.At some point, you, the nerd’s companion, were the project.You were showered with the fire hose of attention because you were the bright and shiny new development in your nerd’s life.* Every site in the Porn Nerd Network * Daily updates of unique content * Brand-new websites monthly * 75 HD Theaters included free * Thousands of full-length DVDs * Thousands of real amateur videos * 1,000,000 Hi-Res Photos * Email your favorite girls * Hands-free slideshows * Members-only discounts * Daily private cam shows * 24/7 Customer Support * 100% Exclusive websites Online since 2009, The Porn Nerd is an amateur adult performer, web designer and Webmaster who prefers to keep his identity a secret for obvious reasons. Each website is screened for ultimate Member experience. Fun, excitement, sexual understanding and pleasure await you inside.