When he needs connection or the fantasy of a relationship, he can effectively “order out” for a date.By avoiding actual human contact he isn’t forced to push his boundaries or risk challenging the perfection of his fantasy women with the experience of a real life woman.Nonetheless, if you’re looking for a fun couple of months, look no further. He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.
He sees women as objects similar to air pumps whose sole purpose is to inflate his ego. He is an older gentleman, usually divorced, but definitely desperate.
He only seeks younger girls to help rekindle those long-extingushed flames by making him feel young and vibrant again.
Sometimes he will admit to the women he finds online that he is using Internet dating as a diversion, and sometimes he won’t.
However, with patience and fortitude there may be the possibility that a substantive relationship can develop.
He doesn’t see himself as a sugar daddy and does not want to give you gifts in exchange for your company, because he wants you to want him, regardless of the fact that he may be decades older than you are.
Preying on the young is his way of never getting old.For many reasons, it is difficult for him to make room for something real. Wide-Eyed but Distractable This primarily 20 to mid 30's guy is excited about the possibility of expanding his horizons and meeting new people.He is bold, tolerant, open, and ready to explore what online dating has to offer.He’s just not ready to involve himself in real-time dating with people he may connect with online.There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.He views long-term dating as a “hiring-process” for which he will happily accept resumes, but he knows that at the end of the day no candidate is worthy of the position. This fellow spends seven days of the week at the gym (and wishes there was just more time to dedicate solely to his triceps), frequents the men’s bathroom to catch a glimpse of himself in the mirror, and has at least three photos on his profile where he is doing his version of “Blue Steel.” He is online for the attention, not for love, and definitely not for you!