(Incidentally, you can rip it off Piratebay, but does not condone illegal behavior).
In the end, Doc’s staying power in the dating advice game and annoying poodle wins him a number 2 douchebag rating. Jason Capital Jason is without a doubt the biggest dating douche on the Internet.
He enjoyed his time in Indonesia, but wishes he spent more of it enjoying cultural pursuits and visiting Majapahit temples than trawling bars in Blok M.
Numerous Indonesian colleagues at the time warned him he was wasting his time here.
He in fact encourages you to open doors for girls, etc.
what he does not encourage is being weak, or a pushover, etc. It didn't work" Well I don't think you are familiar enough with his work, it takes some serious studying and some serious changes to apply the things he's talking about, it doesn't happen over night and I think you gave up too soon.
Beyond such self-obvious platitudes were a plethora of little schemes, stratagems and tricks that ultimately just failed badly.
My buddy in DC tried the tricks at bars and nearly had security (doormen) called on him multiple times.
They were laughing at our vanity, how we got played, and the mercenary and cold nature of the women who approached us. Jakarta, like so many other global metropolises, is a place where people come to chase their dreams. The global financial crisis drove us both back to our home countries. We went back to either small towns or small corners of big cities. In vain, we tried to hit the local bars, replicating in our mind what were the successes of the previous decade. The Tao of Steve suggested there was a technique to the whole thing. We delved into the Internet and discovered an entire corpus of teachings on how to get babes, starting with You Tube with titles like “How to land the woman of your dreams.” Certain themes emerge from these Douchebag coaches.
Many of the girls we thought adored us were simply looking to trade up what they thought was a piece of the American or Australian dream after years of conditioning by movies and TV. Most of it you could’ve got from your Uncle (if you were lucky enough to have a functional one): be confident. Be chivalrous, even if feminist websites like tell you it’s dead and chauvinist.
Like Marni, he tells men they needn’t worry about their looks; women will like them for just being them (yeah, sure Stephan).
In this clip, he advises on “How to be Attractive to Women if You’re Not Good Looking” (we don’t see too many dowdy or ugly movie stars). For us it was, “oh, so you spent 10 years in Southeast Asia – you must be a whoremonger.” 2.
Now, stuck in small-town America, single and aged 43, he agrees with them. I agree with all the others EXCEPT Corey Wayne, if you actually listen to what he says and know his material well enough his teachings work well.